Children of Grace

One of my greatest joys as a pastor is the privilege of being with children. I love kids of all ages and I love to watch them mature. Some of my fondest pastoral memories involve children, like the time that 3 pre-elementary-aged girls stopped me in the hallway to let me know that they knew that it was my birthday. I squatted down to their eye level to engage them further and receive their Happy Birthday wishes. When I asked them if they would be willing to sing Happy Birthday to their pastor, they immediately agreed, smartly lined up side by side, looked at each other, then looked at me and began perfectly on cue a beautiful rendition of “Holy, Holy, Holy!” Not quite what I expected but better than any “Happy Birthday to You” that I’ve ever heard!

Or the time that two young sisters greeted me after a worship service. When I admired the pink crocs on their feet they beamed with delight. Getting beyond myself a little, I explained that though I had some crocs, mine were only black. “I sure wish I had some pink ones, like yours.” My next birthday I received a beautifully packaged bundle of pink crocs from those sisters.

We have seen the Lord do some amazing things with little ones in Grace Baptist Church over the years. Two sisters once listened intently as a missionary described unreached people in the mountains of South Africa who had no blankets for the upcoming cold winter. He said in passing that one of the plans the missionaries had was to purchase blankets to minister to those people. The girls had just been visited by their grandparents who had given them money for a special trip to TCBY (The Country’s Best Yogurt), their favorite place for sweet treats. The night after they heard the missionary, they came from their room to talk to their parents, holding their TCBY money. They asked if mom and dad could get it to the missionary for blankets for the needy people in Africa. That simple act was communicated to other churches and resulted in the development of a children’s giving ministry that has now funded missionary projects around the world over the last twenty years.

Currently, we have a 12 year old cryptozoologist in our church. If you are like I was a few months ago and don’t know what one of those is, here’s a link. He became interested in the subject when one of our teenage boys introduced him to it earlier this year. He has started a blog, interviewed others in the field, and even had some of his work published.

Another preteen brother and sister recently set up a Bibles for Haiti Orphans project after hearing a report of a vision trip to Haiti from two of our men. Their initial goal of collecting enough money to get Bibles to 130 orphans was met the first week. Now they are shooting higher, knowing that there are between 1500-2000 orphans that our church is ministering to in that needy country.

These are just a few of the examples of God’s grace manifested in the lives of the children of Grace. I could spend a lot of time telling of other examples. As I said, getting to be with children is one of the greatest joys of my pastoral ministry.

We don’t have a lot of bells and whistles in our children’s ministry. We love children and try to train and equip parents to disciple the children God has given them. We believe the gospel is for children as well as adults and so we constantly try to encourage children to understand and believe it.

Tom Ascol has served as a Pastor of Grace Baptist Church in Cape Coral, FL since 1986. Prior to moving to Florida he served as pastor and associate pastor of churches in Texas. He has a BS degree in sociology from Texas A&M University (1979) and has also earned the MDiv and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Ft. Worth, Texas. He has served as an adjunct professor of theology for various colleges and seminaries, including Reformed Theological Seminary, the Covenant Baptist Theological Seminary, African Christian University, Copperbelt Ministerial College, and Reformed Baptist Seminary. He has also served as Visiting Professor at the Nicole Institute for Baptist Studies at Reformed Theological Seminary in Orlando, Florida. Tom serves as the President of Founders Ministries and The Institute of Public Theology. He has edited the Founders Journal, a quarterly theological publication of Founders Ministries, and has written hundreds of articles for various journals and magazines. He has been a regular contributor to TableTalk, the monthly magazine of Ligonier Ministries. He has also edited and contributed to several books, including Dear Timothy: Letters on Pastoral Ministry, The Truth and Grace Memory Books for children and  Recovering the Gospel and Reformation of Churches. He is also the author of From the Protestant Reformation to the Southern Baptist ConventionTraditional Theology and the SBC and Strong and Courageous. Tom regularly preaches and lectures at various conferences throughout the United States and other countries. In addition he regularly contributes articles to the Founders website and hosts a weekly podcast called The Sword & The Trowel. He and his wife Donna have six children along with four sons-in-law and a daughter-in-law. They have sixteen grandchildren.
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